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Americans honor veterans who have served our country by wearing the uniform every Veterans Day. For Bryan Dilberian’s family, and mine, this year’s commemoration will be a somber one. Bryan, a former Army specialist, was killed in action on October 1, 2006. His family lost a sister, an uncle and a child. I lost a friend. A hero was lost for our country. It is a sad reminder to all Americans that those who made great sacrifices for their country, both current and past, have been lost.
Bryan was my first encounter in 2015. Bryan had to wear prosthetics on his left leg and both of his legs because of the life-altering injuries he sustained in the IED blast in Afghanistan. Someone in such a condition would easily shut out the outside world. But – consistent with his unflagging enthusiasm for life – what could have been a barrier became a way for Bryan to build relationships. Our conversations about his injuries led to deep discussions about football, life, and other topics.
My family was proud to be a partner with Tunnel to Towers Foundation to give Bryan a fully-customized smart home that is mortgage-free. It is designed to simplify everyday tasks. Veterans who have served in the military and are now returning homewith severe physical disabilities or injuries. Bryan was able to use the house as a place to stay. He was able to maximize his autonomy and freedom through the house. Bryan stated, “When I returned to life, I made certain that I would do things no one else has done with my injuries.” He sure did. His obituary reflects his passion for fishing, bowling and darts. In 2018, Bryan even rode a customized motorcycle from Brooklyn to Sturgis, South Dakota – the site of the most famous motorcycle rally in America every year.
Bryan and his family remained in contact with us over the years. We had the honor of paying tribute to him at a Jets match. His presence also honored us: Brick, and Jack, our two sons were able to learn from him what it was like and why it matters. Although they were initially uncertain how to respond, their infectious optimism helped them get out of their shells. It was an unforgettable moment for my boys to discover the heart of a true hero. These poignant interactions between veterans with civilians are vital in this age where less than 10 percent of Americans served in the military. These interactions are crucial for understanding the sacrifices made by our troops to protect our freedoms.
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Bryan Dilberian
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A few weeks ago, Bryan’s family informed us that he had passed away – news that, for me, triggered both sorrow and reflection on the incredible impact Bryan made on the people in his life. The grief Bryan’s family is now suffering is more common than Americans may realize. According to a Department of Defense study, 517 families have lost a loved ones after their active duty service ended in 2021. This staggering number should be a catalyst for a national effort in order to give the support, recognition, and services that our veterans need.
On November 6, New York Jets recognizeSalute to Service is an annual game that honors the service members of our armed forces. This game is one of many ways we honor and recognize those who have served our country. Tunnels to Towers and their campaign to provide smart homes to vets are still our partners. We also collaborate with Travis Manion Foundation. This foundation empowers fallen veterans and their families to run character and leadership development programs that will benefit the next generation.
This is how the Travis Manion Foundation aids many ex-servicemen to develop their leadership skills, improve their overall health, and have new relationships and a renewed sense purpose. My friend West Point, I thank you. Army Ranger and graduate, Alex Gorsky at Johnson & Johnson for introducing me to this visionary organization.
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These initiatives are mentioned in the hope of inspiring everyone who reads it to take action. It is up to all Americans to honor and support veterans-focused non-profits such as Tunnel to Towers, the Travis Manion Foundation and other veteran-focused organizations. Thank them for their service when you meet a veteran or service member. Listen to their stories. Help them in their journey of reintegration with their family and friends after their time in military service is done. Remember those who have passed away.
Bryan, a friend of mine once said about Bryan’s service that he would do it a million more times. There’s nothing to regret about it. I did something for the country, and I’m proud of myself.” This Veterans Day, let’s repay the valor of heroes like Bryan and support our veterans. You won’t regret your act of service, either.
